David was a very buisy guy. He was the son of a pastor. His dad pastored an independent fundamental baptist church. David followed in his dad’s foot steps. He went to a baptist colege and stufied to be a pastor. He was interning under his dad.
He was a kind of defecto assistant and youth pastor. He was kept buisy. He did not mind that at all. He was not afraid of hard work. He understood the importence of hard work in the calling he felt called to. He accepted it. He was hard working and dedicated.
He did not have time for much of a social life. He was fine with that. He wanted to be maried but had no idea how to find a wife. He was not overly concerned about it. He beleved he would find a wife at the right time.
He felt he needed to keep the main thing the main thing. He focused on the work. He was well liked and well respected. He was mature and industrious. He was a person of integrity and character..everyone thought that he would make an excellent husband and farther.
His sister decided to set him up with someone. “Hey dave,i know someone who would be perfect for you!” Melissa said. “Oh no! Are you trying to set me up on a blind date? ” dave asked.
She chuckled. “Mayby a little! She is a really sweet girl. You will really like her. ” she remarked. “I dont know missy. A blind date? I want to meet someone but blind dates feel realy forced. ” he said
“It will be fine. It is a low presure event Dave. You just have lunch and talk. She is a really nice girl. She is a pastor’s daughter. Her grandparents were missionaries in africa. Both sides of her family are deeply intertwined with fundamental baptists. She went to a Baptist colege and is deeply imvolved with a local baptist church. She is prety and sweet and smart. ” Melissa said.
“I Dont know missy. I am not sure i have time to even consider a relationship! ” he said. “It is not going to get easier dave. You are not going to get any less buisy. There will never be a good time. You are never going to not be buisy. Give her a chance. Do this for me! Please! One little faver. Have i ever steered you wrong? ” she asked. “You did give me that weird shirt! ” he said. She chuckled.
He thought it over quickly. He knew she really wanted him to do this. He knew she would not relent until he agreed to just one date. He decided why not. If nothing else, it would be a night out. He could use a break.
“Alright! I will do it. I am only committed to one date. If it goes really bad, i am leaving early. “Dave said. “Fine! I can agree to that. ” she said. “Alright! I will do it!” he said. She smiled. “I am so glad. You will absolutely love her. This is going to be great! ” she said.
He was not quite as convinced but he was wiling to give it a chance. He and his sister were close. He trusted her. He was not sure about being set up on a date with a complete stranger. Missy liked her and she was a good judge of character.
Apparently she was a friend of hers from her college. He was wiling to meet her and give her a chance. He would see where this went. He was not too hopefull. He realy did not think that it would go anywhere. It was a night out.
He was not dreading it but he was not overly looking forward to it. He was not nervous but he wondered how it would go. What if they had nothing to talk about? What if they had nothing to talk about? What if it was all awkward silence after akward silence? He tried not to sweet over it. How bad could it be? Besides it could be a really good night. One never knew. He decided not to stress over something that had not happened yet. He tried to keep an open mind about it all.
After a week of anticipation and a little concern, the time had arived. He decided to dress casually but not too casualy. He put on a blue button down shirt. He put on brown pants. He tried to look neat but still be dressed down. He wanted to look presentable but relaxed.
He did not spend a lot of time primping but spent some time getting ready. He did style his hair. He did not use cologne. He did use after shave however.
He felt like he was ready to go. He took a deep breath. Then he got his keys and headed out. He went to the car and got in. He drove to the apartment of his date. He arived at her place.
She was waiting inside near the porch. She excited. She wore a white sweater and a pink and white dress. She wore dress shoes. Her hair was braided into a pony tail. She apeared attractive. She seemed to be 21 mayby 22. Dave was 27.
She walked to the car. “Hi i am clare” she said. She had a soft melodic vioce.she seemed shy but not too reserve. She was calm. She seemed nice.
Dave introduced himself. He invited her to get in. “So is Greg’s family restaurant ok?” he asked. “Yes thats fine. ” she answered. “So you dont speak in toungs? Believe in the five ponts of Calvinism ,listen to k love, reada bible version other then the kjv or drink moxie? ” he asked.
She chuckled. “No to all of those. ” she reaplied. He laughed “thats good to hear. ” he reaplied. They both laughed. “I assume you are not a Calvinist, dont read a non kjv ,listen to ccm or drink moxie? ” she asked in jest. “No to all especially moxie because ooh. “He said. She laughed.
The truck parked at the restaurant. He turned off the car. They both excited the vehicle. They went inside. They were seated.
“So you are the assistant pastor at living hope baptist church?” she asked. “It is unofficial but yes. When i graduated bible colege,i told my dad to put me to work. He did and thensome. I was working towards ordination. I have a license to preach the gospel. “He said.
“I see. You are working towards pastoring a church?”she asked. “Yes i am. I am learning a lot from my dad. I am glad for the opportunity to work under him and with him. ” he said. “I have never met him but i have heard good things about him. Your church has a realy good reputation within the i.f.b community. ” she tolf him.
“So your a jr in bible colege? ” he asked.”yes. I am a junior. I want to be a pastor’s wife. I want to teach Sunday school and children churh and leed ladies ministry as well. ” she said.
“Do you get grades? ” he asked in a teasing tone. “I do. I have a 4.0 gpa.” she said. “I did not have a 4.0 g.p.a but i got mostly As. I have dyslexia. I have to work at it. I did ok. ” he said.
“Thats good. ” she said. The date was going well. They had similar interests and personality. They laughed alot. It was a great date.he realy did not think anything of it before. He liked her. He suspected that she liked him. Things were going very well. He began to think that she night be a serious candidate to be his future wife.
Then the diner took an odd turn. He ordered a steak and potaoes. She ordered a chicken salid. During the meal she felt weird. She had pooped herself.
She had no idea what to do. She was totaly humiluated. She had had isues with bowel incontinence. It was not a complete issue. It did happen hear and there. It had not happened recently.
She tried not to draw attention to it. She tried to act as if nothing had happened. She did not realy have an apitite after she soiled herself. She did not have an extra pair or panties. She was crap out of luck.
After a while, he paid for the meal. He had noticed that she stopped eating. She had stopped talking. He figured out that she had had a bulge. He figured out that she had pooped herself. He did not want to make a big deal about that.
He could that she just wanted to get out. He liked her.he wanted a second date or more. They said little.he thanked her for the date. She left. She went inside.
She took off her cloths. She showered. She cleaned herself out. She was shocked and stunned. She wanted to forget about the date.
Melisa got two conflicting stories. Clare did not want to talk about it. Dave told his sister that he liked her he waited a while but he called her.
“I have hsd isues with bladder incontinence off and on. It can be u perdictible” she told him over the phone. He convinced her to agree to abother date.
She brought diapers. She wore diapers this time. The seccond date went great. She wore diapers during there dates.
They eventually got maried. They had a son and twin daughters. He got to pastor a church. She wore dippers alnost all the time.